I began using ChatGPT and other AI software last year, and I have to admit it’s been a game changer for me. In addition to using it to design a coloring book that I sold on Amazon, I also dabbled in editing photos, condensing interviews and fact checking. It’s also come in handy when decluttering to find out what’s worthy of donating, selling or trashing.
During the holidays I received a ChatGPT year in review, which was generated based on my use of the program. It’s quite interesting that it captured so precisely my life in 2025 in such a creative rendition.
Yes, I asked a lot of questions about our Alaskan cruise while researching which excursions to do in the various cities we visited. I also purchased two new FujiFilm cameras this year (as well as a new lens after accidentally breaking one in half), spent ample time visiting my new favorite bookstore, The Archive, where I walk Poppy to peruse the new releases, grab a latte and chat with friends.
And, of course, what year would be complete without attending and reporting on various USHJA events around the country, including the International Hunter Derby Championships. While I haven’t competed in the championships, I admire those who do and interview and photograph them each year. For many decades I did dream of competing there, but that goal has slowly slipped away as time, money and other commitments have curtailed such major ambitions. These days I’m content to enjoy the horses at home and show at a lower level simply for the enjoyment and camaraderie. The ribbon ChatGPT placed on the desk reminds me of past achievements and that I’ll always strive for more of those blues in life!
So, what did ChatGPT miss? Well, I enjoyed judging horse shows around the country, from Aiken to HITS Chicago to Paso Robles in California and many places in between. I checked off South Dakota on my list of states, as well, when judging for South Dakota State University (in a blizzard, of course!). I’ve now visited 42 states and plan to add a few more in 2026 with the ultimate goal of seeing all 50.
One aspect of my year it also overlooked was the loss of my dear friend and business partner. Michelle passed away on March 3, and I felt her loss profoundly every single day. I considered continuing Ink Horse Publishing to keep her memory alive, but after about six months I realized the joy I found in the business was gone along with her. I struggled to pick up the pieces that Michelle had so effortlessly handled, and it was hard to ignore the reason for my procrastination— it just wasn’t fun anymore.
I’ve built my life around deadlines and achieving them, but without Michelle by my side, the Ink Horse projects just sailed on past, and the guilt I should have experienced simply evaporated. So, as December 31 turns into January 1, I will formally lay Ink Horse to rest. We had a great run, Michelle, and I’ll be forever grateful for your support, creativity, enthusiasm and, most of all, your friendship of 30+ years. ChatGPT may follow my online movements with ease and accuracy, but it can never truly know what’s in my heart.